HOW YOUR PARENT'S RELATIONSHIP CAN AFFECT YOU

 HOW YOUR PARENT'S RELSTIONSHIP CAN AFFECT YOU

How your parents relationship can affect you 

Your parents' relationship can affect you in a number of ways. If they have a good relationship, you'll likely learn how to effectively communicate and compromise with your partner. If they have a bad relationship, you may learn negative patterns of communication and become more pessimistic about relationships in general. You may also be more likely to experience anxiety or depression if your parents have a bad relationship.

10 ways your parents relationship can affect you 

1. If you grew up with stressed parents who had huge marital problems; you might grow up with trauma to heal from that might make you triggered in your own marriage 

2. If you grew up with parents who had a good marriage but who were not so good parents; you might end up being disconnected from ideas of marriage if you don't heal

3. If you grew up with a single mother and a dead beat father and your mom didn't want to address your questions; if you don't heal, you might end up wondering about your identity and you can end up feeling unsettled even in your marriage. Accept the rejection and heal

4. If you grew up with parents who were good to you; if you don't seperate parental love and romantic love, you might end up wanting your spouse to treat you like your parents but that is not your spouse's role

5. If you grew up with parents who were so caught up in fights and had no time for you making you suppress your feelings; if you don't heal, you might struggle to open up to people, including your spouse 

6. If you grew up in a home where shouting was the norm; if you don't heal, you might end up shouting at your spouse or partner to get your point across 

7. If you saw your parents in an abusive marriage; if you don't heal, you might end up being fearful of marriage, even if you do get married, you might have an inclination to run away from your own marriage when it gets stormy. Are you projecting?

8. If you grew up in a home of uncertainty due to your parent's shaky marriage; if you don't heal, you might say you want to get married but are afraid of commitment

9. If your parents spoiled you too much; if you don't outgrow it, you might end up being lazy and dependent in marriage, wanting your spouse to do everything 

10. If because your parent's marriage was a mess and you suffered lack and had to grow up very fast to take care of your siblings and issues.